Saturday, September 21, 2013

Winner

October 4th is our anniversary. Not just any anniversary either. This is 10 years. 
I have been thinking a lot about the fact I have been a wife to Bob for 10 years. 
I'm married and in love with my husband. I know this with everything I am. 
And I also know without a doubt that Bob is right where he wants to be and he loves me.  

I think about all the changes that my MS has brought into my life. I am healthier, fit and more active.  I have a positive outlook on life, live my days to the fullest and without regrets. I realize the truly important things in life. 
Another change over the past few years is my relationship with my husband. 
At the risk of sounding mushy I am so completely in love. I hear often the words "I love you" and even in the moments I don't I NEVER doubt his love. 

The differences happened over time.  It was little things, but mostly it comes down to telling the people you love that you love them but also showing them. Little things like a random card reminding them how happy they make you. The late night talks in bed about all the good things in our life together. The lingering kiss as I'm heading out the door. 

In less than two weeks we are going to celebrate a milestone that I am so proud to have reached. Not only have we reached the 10 years, we have grown and improved our marriage and I love and am in love with my husband. 

It sometimes feels like my life is too good. I have a so much wonderfulness in it that sometimes it feels like I am going to burst. 
Instead I am going to smile and take in the good, the wonder and the love and enjoy feeling like I'm winning!





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